Weight Loss Letter to Women Only:
I understand where you are coming from! I know how you feel and what you live every day. ……….. I really do!
I am a 46 year old female with three children, a nurse with a career that required me to travel by plane and car 60% of the time, pets, a house, a husband and a hysterectomy at age 44. I have done the carpool, ball games, and built the entire solar system overnight (of course I did not know it was due until that night, or I could have done a better job). I have written more essays at the last minute than I care to recall, about books I never read. I have washed the ball uniforms found under the bed and air dried them in the back seat on the way to the games. I have found every lost thing in my home by others at least twice and we added “dust bunnies” to our list of pets. I have made dinners nobody ever ate and cleaned my kitchen floor almost every day of my adult life. You see I am you.
Just like you, I love my husband and family very much. You see, it was just my job to do what I did and try to take care of them first.
I find my self now at age 46 having taken care of everyone in my family to the very best of my ability with the exception of me. Now is my time…… or at least that is the way I see it.
I have struggled with weight gain/loss all my life. I have been normal weight then 20 pounds up and then 10 down. I am a typical yo-yo. When I reached 35 however, the weight never came off as easily as it did when I was in my 20’s. After the hysterectomy it was downhill at high speed. The weight continued to increase. At 35 pounds over weight I cleaned out my closet, knowing that I would never be a size 6 again and maybe someone else could benefit from my clothes. They were only depressing to me and a constant reminder that I was never going to be the vibrant, youthful woman I had once been. Let me stop here and say that my husband loved me dearly and never once stopped wanting me or letting me know that he loved me. I am very lucky to have such a man and I know it. I knew he loved me…the problem was I didn’t really love myself. You see I am you and I do understand.
I became sad and depressed but nobody knew and nobody would have really understood, or so I thought. I was tired all the time and never slept well. I was very good at hiding it, since I am a woman that “fixes things”. I have cried many tears over who I had become. You see I am you.
Now for the good news…you do not have to be overweight, unhealthy and feel bad about yourself any more. I know. I have lived that as well. I changed my habits and lifestyle by taking Z-Slim Appetite Suppressant from http://www.magna4u.com/ learning to eat less. It was a slow process, but change generally is. I lost a few pounds and decided this time it would work and I could succeed at permanent weight loss. I lost a couple more pounds and starting feeling optimistic. Then I started to make healthier choices and add a little exercise. My weight loss plan really started to work then. I have now lost 35 pounds over 7 months and I feel better than I have in my whole life. I exercise every day. I eat smaller portions by choice. All those clothes that I gave away would now fit as I am back in a size 6 and sometimes in a size 4 even! You must be patient and stick with Z-Slim.
You see I was you and I do understand. I want you to lose that weight, stop crying and being depressed, find renewed hope and learn to love yourself again. I want you to learn that you are an important part of your family and you need to take time for you. Taking time to help yourself only makes you a better wife and mother. I know that as well. My love for my family has only increased and my patience and ability to cope with stress is at an all time high. Little did I know years ago, that if I had managed me a little better and been healthier, I could have managed my life and so many other things better. I wish for you to find all the things that I have found. I want you to be me, and to understand what I now feel.
Lastly, and probably more importantly, pray every day for strength and guidance to persevere. Pray that God will take obstacles out of your life and give you the energy to push on. And when he does…..and he will….answer your prayers, be grateful for his love and support and thank him.
I have been you and I do understand.
Look into http://www.magna4u.com/ Z-Slim products to help you.
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